I thought long and hard about this over the day I'm frustrated with her but I am mad at my family. I know my son is hurt but he has to learn to deal with her she is the baby's mother. I have no idea what is up with my hubby but he is withdrawn and drinking so no real help. They aren't being very helpfully. Neither is any group or organization. My dr said that it was amazing that my son stepped up to the plate and that most men would not!! He has since retired good cause that is the stupidest thing I have ever heard. Oh and the dr was a man.

My other two I know it was best that my daughter moved to be closer to the school they didn't get a long and the two living here would have torn the family apart worse than it is now. My youngest doesn't do confrontation never has and didn't think he could deal with the tension that was our house.

Mean while it all falls on me. She isn't really talking to me right now so I'm not sure how she is feeling. She hasn't had any bad days in a while which is good but no one can be that up all the time. Maybe the new meds are working. I do know that our not wonderful universal health care has dropped her psych appointments to once a month. My understanding of BPD is that it needs lots of one on one time not sure how once a month qualifies. Her grandmother has been ill and that worries me too. As near as I can figure her grandmother is the only person who has been consistently nice and has never ever abandoned her. Her health is failing if her grandmother goes she may fallow.

Every time I think we are rounding a corner and seeing light at the end of the tunnel it turns out to be a train. I'm not sure what to do or if there is anything I can do. frustrating

Anyone else in a similar boat