As a teacher, I know that those awards, at least in my experience are not for butt kissing as you call it. The subject awards are generally given to the strongest student we teach. That is partially based on grade, along with responsibility, leadership, citizenship, etc. You don't know what each teacher based their award on and it is ashame that you speak in such a derogatory manner about other students. Your daughter is being given due recognition for her own achievements yet all you seem focused on is insulting the other students and their teachers. Attempt to keep your focus on showing your pride for your own daughter's awesome academic success in achieving honor roll. She has earned that award and what she wants from you is your support and praise, not for you to insult the other students and teachers out of jealousy. Focus on her, not on your anger at everyone else. This isn't about you. In your post you have referred to your daughter as a brick in the wall. Really? What a shame. Why would you want her to have one of those "fluff" awards if they are just the crap you describe them as. Listen to yourself and please don't let your daughter hear speak about this the way you do. It would be so hurtful.