Exactly! Cuz for one, he lives in dire fear of having a mental disorder like his parents and brothers, and two he doesn't even understand my own mental disorder...he was just taught to ignore his problems while I was taught to deal with mine. So you're right, it def is hard for two people with issues... But I've had yeaaaarrssss of therapy and he has zero which worries me.... And he's 36 already so I don't know....I heard it's harder to treat an older person cuz they're so set in their ways.