Sometimes feeling angry is the way to go. Staying on friendly terms sounds good but it doesn't always work. Sometimes cutting it off completely is the best strategy.

My t says if someone is bad partner to one person then it's a guarantee they are bad partner to others ( unless someone did a lot of work on themselves or just needs to grow age wise). So I am pretty sure he isn't going to be miraculously wonderful with other women.

Also when they say their ex was this or that unless you know her or encounter her abuse of your partner ( like if she calls and screams obscenities demanding more money years later for example) or know many people who know her and serve as witnesses, you really don't know if they were horrid. It could be that it wasn't them who were horrid. Just saying.

I've met some unpleasant men ( not got involved luckily) who claimed their exes were all horrid but frankly getting to know them made me wonder who really was a horrid partner. Hhmm

Heal grieve and move on. He can stay in his own mess. Hugs

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