Your family is wrong in so many different ways! Stigma, bias, ignorance, fear, has hijacked those people. You have a right to be supported, loved, encouraged by your family, Having a mi is one part of your identity (and mine) and I think it is a natural part of diversity, and I am learning to find it beautiful. We have a community, we have many talents, gifts, interests that are beautiful and necessary. Can you get away from them or set some boundaries to protect yourself? They are wrong, wrong, wrong!!!