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Old Jun 02, 2016, 08:26 AM
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Originally Posted by ilikecats View Post
So I asked the guy I'm having sex with if we're in a relationship or if we're just **** buddies. He said we're the latter. I'm kinda disappointed and sad. I'm afraid I'm getting too attached to him, and that I like him more than he likes me. Any advice to deal with this?

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That's harsh, ilikecats, and I'm sorry you're feeling sad. Yes, having a relationship first and then progressing to sex is best but some of us have intimacy issues that makes that difficult. I say, if you need a **** buddy right now in your life, then don't feel guilty about it. If you need a different type of relationship, I agree that he may not be the one to provide that for you. In any case, I wish you healing.
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Thanks for this!
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