I have been on match.com since about the beginning of the year, and I have gotten a grand total of 0 responses from anyone. I have sent approximately 60 emails. I know that that is not a lot of messages, especially since it takes 100's to actually get a response as a guy, however, whenever I refine my search to actually find someone that I would be interested in, there are about 12 people that come up.

Some people might say, "oh well you just need to be more open" and that I am narrowing my search too much. But I disagree, I would say I am being quite generous in what I'm allowing there to be in my searches. I only narrowed it by: The person has to be white, mexican/latino or black, in the range of age 23-30, non-smoker, and for "Wants kids" I put a check next to Not sure, Probably not, or No. So by checking "Not sure" there is even still the possibility that they could want kids, yet I am still returning about 12 results. That's 12 results out of all of the women on match.com within a 30 mile radius of my area! And I live in a HEAVILY populated area, the capital of Arizona.

I have gone to meetup.com groups for singles, nerd/geek types (because, well, I am one) and no success there. I have tried other dating sites, most everything is a scam that asks you for your credit card #. I'm 26 years old and running out of time here. I'm just wondering if I should end my life now rather than wait and find out I'll have to later anyways.