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Originally Posted by Ruari
My friends notice a difference. I can't concentrate at work. I've lost 10 lbs. because I don't eat.
I finally realized last night he's a ****ing psycho.
How did I get here? I'm a strong, smart woman.
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It would be easy if bad stuff only happened to stupid weak people. Doesn't work this way.
I have two masters degrees and have a successful career as well as am mentally and emotionally stable person and an awesome parent of a successful happy adult yet I am a victim of a financial romance scam. Big scam.
When I told police , lawyer and FBI agent that I am embarrassed it happened to me as I think it only happens to dumb people i was told that in their experience it happens to all kind people of all walks in life. It's so very common. And that's worse than falling for a wrong guy. Don't beat yourself up. Things happen
I don't know if it is possible but find something funny about this whole thing. I found some funny moments in it all and am still cracking up about some things. I never recovered my money. My brother said pretend you never had it. Yup.
Think of positive in here. Imagine you actually got involved with him? Like drove there or what not. Wasted your vacation etc hang in there. It will get better
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