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Originally Posted by My kids are cool
Granite, I have been thinking a lot about what you posted. My heart goes out to you, but I am not sure what to say. I remember thinking that telling my family 'no' was just not an option. Eventually, I realized it was an option, but that is a long slow process. Unaluna was actually helpful to me in coming to that realization. Want to chime in here, Una/Hankster?
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I also want to say, Granite, that I am in the process of learning that no is an actual word, especially when it comes to my family it's impossible, but after so many years I'm finally able to think it could be an option even though I still can't do it yet, at least acknowledging it is a huge small step for me. It is a looooooooooooonnnnnggggg sllllooooooooooooooooooowwww process... Wish you the best in your journey with it. Thinking of you.
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