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Originally Posted by Sadley
Why are there no women in existence that simply do not want kids?? Kids aren't that great. I can list MANY reasons to not have kids.
1. Having kids is like starting over. I don't want to have to start over, teaching someone everything from scratch, when I've come this far.
2. I don't want to be responsible for another life.
3. I don't think the world is a good place to live
4. I don't want to FORCE someone, WITHOUT their consent, into being for my pleasure (in theory, except it wouldn't be my pleasure since I don't want to have kids).
5. I don't want to make anyone else suffer.
6. I have many diseases and illnesses that run through my family (heart disease, diabetes, life-threatening allergies, depression, anxiety, ocd, poor eyesight, I'm sure there's more)
7. I can't afford a child monetarily and I would want to give the child the best shot at life I could.
8. I don't think I would make a good parent
9. I simply do not want to sacrifice all of my time for children
10. I want to simply enjoy my adult life with a girl and have great sex uninterrupted (someone tell me what is wrong with that???)
11. I don't want a child to have to worry about dying or the afterlife (something I struggled with in my life)
I could go on people!!
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There are plenty of women that don't want children first of all. I know a few myself. It's not just men that have this type of feeling toward having kids just gotta look around more.
"I don't want children" - should be sufficient here. Your reasons, your explanations and all of those that you listed are irrelevant if you're looking for a mate that wants to be with you and find out if you're right for each other. If you find yourself needing to explain the list to her, then move on, she's not the one. Because the one that's right will go "yeah I get it, neither do I" no reasons needed.