Overall it's not a good idea to worry what other people get. There is always someone who has less than us or more than us. Worrying what others have and being upset that they got more is victim mentality.

Enjoy your daughters accomplishments, be happy about them and don't worry what other kids got. You don't know for sure why they got what they got and why it's even matter. It just makes you upset and angry over nothing.

As about what you do in the future is attend events if your daughter got an award and celebrate regardless what other kids got.

I am a parent too and I never even thought that some kids got this or that, I only worry about mine.

As a teacher I just gave awards to graduating seniors, first of all it was discussed in our team and second of all they would be hurt if someone thought they got awards for butt kissing. Certainly not. You have no proof what they got it for and why, so stop worrying about it and just enjoy your own kid

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