ok, new here. first time ever posting anything anywhere, so bear with me. i feel like i have been living in an emotionally (and possibly sexually) abusive relationship. he says it's all me. i've done research on the internet, and run into stuff that's like: "yes, ok, that IS happening". but then things get turned around on me, and he uses ME as the example. it's hard to laundry-list all this junk and not BORE someone to death..... I'd like to start a chat and get some feedback in real time. thanks. ~ jen