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Originally Posted by Sadley
Why are there no women in existence that simply do not want kids?? Kids aren't that great. I can list MANY reasons to not have kids.
1. Having kids is like starting over. I don't want to have to start over, teaching someone everything from scratch, when I've come this far.
2. I don't want to be responsible for another life.
3. I don't think the world is a good place to live
4. I don't want to FORCE someone, WITHOUT their consent, into being for my pleasure (in theory, except it wouldn't be my pleasure since I don't want to have kids).
5. I don't want to make anyone else suffer.
6. I have many diseases and illnesses that run through my family (heart disease, diabetes, life-threatening allergies, depression, anxiety, ocd, poor eyesight, I'm sure there's more)
7. I can't afford a child monetarily and I would want to give the child the best shot at life I could.
8. I don't think I would make a good parent
9. I simply do not want to sacrifice all of my time for children
10. I want to simply enjoy my adult life with a girl and have great sex uninterrupted (someone tell me what is wrong with that???)
11. I don't want a child to have to worry about dying or the afterlife (something I struggled with in my life)
I could go on people!!
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AMEN!!! I'm a 29 year old female that doesn't want kids! I wanted one sooo badly when I was about 24 and ended up with a miscarriage. Now that I see how my life is still going, I think it was for the best. Now if I did get pregnant with my current bf then we probably would have it. In a way I feel like time is running out on me. But I have plenty of friends my age that don't have kids yet! Studies show that our generation is doing things later in life and I'm fine with that! Actually I know I can't get pregnant right now because if my psych meds took away my cycle and that does worry me.
Now finding a SO with out kids is tough. My bf has two boys and they drive me up a wall lol. I'm getting my own taste of motherhood now and it's not easy! Ideally I wish I would of found someone with no kids but I wouldn't change a thing now.
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