Well, in that case, what is left for you to do? What would need to happen in order for your husband to be med compliant?

Unfortunately that's all anyone could suggest because there isn't much on the side of wellness other than participation with a social network (like NAMI) and taking appropriate meds faithfully.

Does your husband still want to stay married? It could be that taking a breather/separation might be a cathartic thing to try.