Don't know why you'd think things are easy for me. If they were, I wouldn't even advice anything because I wouldn't know. I been there been that and no one ever advised nothing until I met my therapist.

I've been in some bad predicaments in life ( didn't I just posted that I lost enormous amount of money in romance scam? Lived with alcoholic for 9 years in hopes he quits when I really had to get out in 3 months not decade later? Other stuff not really relationship related but robberies and assault etc nothing easy there.

Yes I am relatively healthy and strong but my relationship history is a book of trials and errors and choosing wrong things as I never had true role model. Whatever made you think I am black and white person I am not sure. I have a lot of life experiences so I speak from knowledge and insight.

I was hurting for you and your pain and I'd like this dude to be gone, I find him toxic. Certainly i didn't imply that it's easy or that you need to listen. I specified it is my opinion only. I just disliked him complicating your life. I assumed I was a friend for quite some time and have been there this whole time you struggled with this situation.



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