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Originally Posted by Sunshinestateofmind
Thank you to everyone who gave their opinions in advice. Similar to all of you, I have conflicting views, thoughts/feelings about this issue. I'm going back and forth between "we are all only human" and "He is the professional. He should know better. What was I thinking pushing this?". I have been seeing him as a T for quite some time now and I am very comfortable around him and tend to see him more as a person rather than my T. This confession or whatever you call it of his just made the lines blurred more. I do not in any way feel uncomfortable or creeped out by him. I just feel confused. I just want to be able to come back from this and forget it was discussed. There is my avoidant personality at its finest.
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I would perfectly understand if you didn't want to go into details on public forum so I won't ask for details. I just want to let you know that I was in the similar situation and it didn't turn out well for me because I also wasn't in any way feeling "creeped out" by my therapist. Quite the opposite. I kinda liked seeing him despite the fact that he behaved unprofessionally. Eventually, as I said, it didn't turn out well, so I'd like to warn you against making the same mistake I made. If you want to talk to me privately about it you are welcome to PM me because I also don't feel like going into details on public forum.