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Old Jun 03, 2016, 08:13 PM
Sarmas Sarmas is offline
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Member Since: Apr 2016
Location: Ny
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So I'm still on a therapy break and I don't think I'm going back due to issues with my T in past four years, she's become disinterested and more focused on money, and I'm about to have no insurance. I don't want to grow more attached than I am already and have to break it off because of finances. My kids also see a T as well who also works in her building. My T and their T are best friends. I gave them permission to communicate with each other thinking it was beneficial. I'm not sure what my T said to my kids T but she is giving me a hard time. I'm in the middle of a divorce and their T accused me in the last session of talking bad about her to my children which I didn't. She said otherwise she doesn't understand why they don't trust her. They had an issue with a previous T who we found out was giving all sorts of information about me and my children to my ex. He also grew against me and actually yelled at me during a session because I didn't want to apply what he was telling me which was insane. Then there T now said that she was thinking of terminating them. They're 15 and 11. She brought them in one at a time to question them in front of me and see if she could make a "liar" out of me. I told her that I was so overwhelmed already with life that the last thing I'm thinking about or talking about is her. She told my kids that she couldn't help them because they don't trust her. I told her to try to speak to them and see why and she told me that I don't have to tell her how to do her job. Now I don't have my T and all of the Ts there support each other. I can't keep switching Ts on my kids and that's not fair to them but now I'm on her bad list. She said that I'm working against her. I was wondering if perhaps because I'm not seeing my T and because that's her best friend that perhaps they are just trying to eliminate us because it's easier for the them. I wasn't sure how to handle things in order for her not to terminate my kids so she brought me in again the last five minutes of the session and asked me what I wanted to do. I told her that I didnt care anymore and for her to choose. I was emotionally tired and I'm exhausted of life as it is. So far she's still their T and now I'm walking on eggshells because of things don't go her way then it's my fault. Both my T and their current T wanted to prove their past T as not violating rights. I told them that information was passed along in ways that it shouldn't have been. I never reported him. They are still try to prove that he did nothing wrong and that my boys are making up things and that I'm not seeing things as it is. The way my divorce is going I might get one session in if that and it will be my T arguing with me about how wrong I am and how her best friend is right. I'm not sure which way to turn but my life just gets more complicated every day.
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