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Old Sep 24, 2007, 08:49 PM
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Actually you probably did the best thing possible....next time he thinks about throwing plactis at you,,,,,maybe he will think twice before doing it next time. Sometimes people have to understant that what they are doing isn't ok...otherwise they keep on doing it. We have to set limits at times,....this was the time after it happened that many times. Sure, we might be able to set our limits in a nicer way, but when we are pushed, they are lucky to get a reminder as nicely as you did it.

It's ok to set limits as to how people are treating you....you may have learned something this time too....in that you may think of a better way of setting your limits with people the next time it happens....but it doesn't mean that you don't have to set your limits.

It's a learning process all around,
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