I am the ill one in the relationship, and my husband comes to all therapy and doctor appointments and is able to share his concerns about me and my moods/actions, which is helping our marriage together.

But a year ago, i pushed him away and did very hurtful things with lots of consequences because of my illness.
After 9 months of me acting like that, he gave me an ultimatum and said i need to commit to him and the kids or leave. And thats the day i turned myself around.

Im not sure how much of my story will help you, but i wanted to share from the perspective of the other side.

Stay strong and do whats best to keep you healthy.

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