Caught my husband texting/sexting other women. We've been married 6 years. This is the 3rd time. When I get suspicious about his cell phone activities, particularly when I wake up in middle of the night and he's on his phone, he lies about it. Happened again last night. Told him to give me his phone if he had nothing to hide. He gave it to me and I found the many texts immediately. He hadn't had a chance to delete them. He tried to lie his way out of them, but I had nailed him dead to rights. The lying is what bothers me the most. Hate being lied to.

So what do you guys think, is this cheating even if he hasn't physically done the deed with thes women?