Well, different people feel differently about sex. In our culture a lot of people are raised to believe that sex should only be with someone you have a special connection with. However, many people do not feel this way. I'm not going to speculate about percentages or anything like that, but I know for a fact that MANY women do not need to have an emotional connection with a guy in order to want sex with him. Women have sexual urges which are triggered by physical attraction, just like men do.


I should point out however that I don't ONLY want casual sex. If I met a girl I really liked(a crush basically), I would want to date her perhaps. But at the same time though, I am not to settle down. I believe that a person should date around so that they learn more about themselves and what they are looking for. Also sowing your wild oats sexually. Most people do this stuff when they are younger. Problem is, because I am 28, people expect me to act like a 28 year old, and that means getting serious in terms of relationships.


Also, I should point out that it doesn't have to be sex. Other things like making out, touching, holding hands, etc. are sexually pleasurable. If I could find a girl who wanted to do that stuff with me but didn't want to have sex, that would be perfectly fine with me as well.