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Originally Posted by CrzyCatLady4
I will say that she is very unhappy in her home and work life. I have been doing a lot of change work in the last 18 months, maybe that has something to do with it. I'm growing and she isn't. Maybe being around me when she is so unhappy and angry is hard for her. So, for now, I will send her good energy and give her space. Maybe we have outgrown each other. Its sad, because I really do love her. But if she is going to be unkind and push me away, then I don't need that.
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Then she can handle even less pressure and/or deficit in her life. I don't get the feeling (from what you've posted) that this is about her resenting or envying some kind of change or progress you've made in your life. From what you've said of her words and actions, she really doesn't seem like an angry or unkind person. Even though you have been hurt by some of her words and actions, I think she is actually trying
not to hurt you. She needs to withdraw, but she doesn't throw spiteful/hurtful words at you or completely abandon you (terminate the friendship altogether) without a word. She says nice things like she still enjoys the time together and that she knows you weren't trying to make her feel bad or do anything wrong.
I think from this new post that it does not sound like you wish her well or love her.
