Hello open soul,

Just my opinion and experience but you both need to have your own friends and to be able to trust each other. When one or other starts trying to control the other like that then that really is a bad sign and one which can turn into abuse or an ending to a marriage. Let her have her personal time with no controlling whatsoever, if she strays then this is not a good marriage. You also need to have your own personal time doing what you want to without her interfering. Trust and communication are absolute key to a good marriage.