acceptance.... "being with a person where they are 'at' - just being there - silent but there",
a hot cup of coffee..when the "world has turned upside down", extending a "hand" when no one else will because the situation "weirds" others out, even you.. but you do it anyway, a "look" at a funeral that tells a person how much you feel there grief - when everyone else expects the person to put on a "face",

promising "forever and a day - and keeping it"

a light "touch" on a person's "arm"

"doing the right thing for the person, even though it hurts both of you"