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Originally Posted by Crypts_Of_The_Mind
There is one person you can always get love from - yourself. If there is ever a time you find it hard to love yourself you need to ask yourself "why?"
Self-love doesn't depend upon what the rest of society has about you - only the one you have about yourself. So if you find it hard to love yourself you must ask yourself why - what is it you dont like about you. Then make plans to make the changes needed and follow through.
Once you are able to truly love yourself you will find others will be attracted to you as well. People gravitate toward a feeling of confidence and strength and assurance - self-love exudes all three.
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honestly this is the kind of answer i predicted i would get.
the simple fact is that i just can't love myself. i've tried and tried. everyone tells me to but no one can tell me how or why i should. whu should i love myself if nobody loves me? obviously i don't deserve it.
what does loving myself even mean? i have always hated myself. i wouldn't know self-love if it slapped me in the face.
and by making changes do you mean lose weight? because i am already doing that. i starve myself and have lost 50 lbs. i just want to be loved as i am but obviously a fat girl has to lose weight first and get a makeover before she can be loved. everyone tells me in some way or other. "make the change" is subtle for "lose 100 lbs and then maybe someone will want you".