so just HOW am i supposed to love myself then? (since it's obvious to me now that no one else will). i need a step-by-step because i really do not understand it. i am not exaggerating when i say i've always hated myself. even the thought of loving myself just feels so wrong.

crypts, i have a rather personal question. but have you, as a fat girl, been able to find romance, love, or sex? and if so, how? because self-love is a good concept and i need to do it, yes, but i also have emotional and physical needs that i just can't meet on my own and i am withering.