((((((((((((((( freewill ))))))))))))))))))

Maybe in the 7 years you have been seeing her, she has been able to put some subtle messages together to ask you that question. It seems to me that after 7 years, she may have just found the courage to ask you if you are, not wanting to intrude on your space, but wanting to know so that she can give you the best possible care??? It also seems to me that she must be observant (since you say you are good at hiding it) enough to figure it out.

I'm sorry you are feeling uncomfortable with all of this. I'm sure you all need some time to settle into the idea of your doc knowing.....try to be gentle with yourselves hon.

As far as her finding out from your pdoc, the only way she could was if you had signed a form giving her permission to access information from your pdoc.

I'm glad she was completely accepting of your dx freewill. She sounds like a good doc who truly cares and you must be quite comfortable to be with her for 7+ years now

Hugsss
sabby