This is a very hard situation and I need to vent.
I'm nit the type that hates people, and I actually get very well with other people. My BF and I started dating over a year ago, and although things go well between us I can't stand his dad. I really love his mom, she such a good person, but he's dad is an ***.
We went to spend a month close to them, and everyday I had to control myself nit say anything.
He always needs attention, for anything he has to be the center of the party and downstairs allow anyone else to speak. If me or my BF say some joke or get attention his dad start getting upset or bored. He behaves like a toddler.
I also dislike the way he treats his wife, always asking her to make him coffee, to bring him food on the the bed because he's cold, etc.
About 6 months ago he got sick with shingles, and he much better now, but he has to tell everybody about how sick he is. He's actually continuously sick, and even his daughter thinks he's faking it to get attention.
My BF wants them to come and spend 2 month with us, but I'm not sure if I would be able to deal with him. I'd not have a problem with his mom. I love her, she's a generous and lovely person. I feel very sorry for her, as she has to look after that 70 year old baby. She 70 also, and I start getting concerned of her health. But that man... Can't stand him.
Is there any way I can't stop this feeling for him?