Divine I just did the whole Wedding thing for the second time. We talked about eloping but too many factors prevented us from feeling comfortable with that.

That being said weddings are stressful!!!!! No way around it. You have to do what you and your fiancé feel is best.

Having a wedding, white dress and all (well ivory lol) was what was best for us. Our children could be with us and participate in the ceremony and my ailing grandmother could witness something she had been waiting for for a few years.

If you know the stress will be too much then elope.

Whatever you choose congratulations and many wonderful years ahead!