I have to agree with Myzen -- not to mention that it was remarkably rude and insensitive of that rhymes-with-witch to assume "one size fits all." It's nice that she's found comfort in her new-agey crap (I have had people try to push A Course in Miracles on me too), but it doesn't make you bad because it doesn't work for you.

From where I sit, you didn't screw up at all. "Friends" who dump on you like that in the name of "honesty" are no friends at all. I didn't get any sense that she really cared about you. Let it go -- not your fault at all.

Candy