I am sorry I should have mentioned he is 33 years old. He has had problems since he was young. It has just reached a point where I am unable to help him because he doesn't think he has a problem. He did go to a therapist two weeks ago, I don't know if he is still going. If he is he hasn't gotten anymore insightful. In fact he has been only meaner. His dad was never a part of his life. He is very smart but gets lost in his delusions. I think he may be manic depressive with delusions but Ill never know. He has two boys. My grandsons. During the last argument he said it might be a good idea to not let me see the boys. That and all the other things have become too much. He has to figure out his own life and who he wants to be as a man, father and son.