If you are very young and usually dress very young-looking, like jeans and sneakers, than 'womanly' could mean grown-up. I feel the same as all other commenters that it's weird and creepy.

I have never been called 'womanly'. I've been told I look lady-like, attractive, pretty, feminine (when I am dressed that way). I was once told by a boyfriend when I got out of the pool in a bikini and was 120 pounds, that I had 'child-bearing hips'. He was terrified of me and that relationship didn't go far.

I would ask the therapist what they meant by their comment just for clarification. Then let us know, we'll have a chuckle over it...