i've heard that while in one sense the opposite of love is hate...
in another sense the opposite of love is indifference.

swings between idealisation (love) and devaluation (hate). apparently it isn't so uncommon. strong feelings... strong feelings either way. the people who can make us feel the happiest can also make us feel the most angry / sad / hurt etc.

i'm not sure what is up... i'm not sure why he blew it.

sounds like you are feeling like he is going to drag you (kicking and screaming) into mental health.

hmm.

did it worry you that he wasn't taking your anger seriously?
did it feel good that he wasn't afraid of it / you?