Hello shygirl,

wanted to add something positiv; My bf and I have a child and maybe all 4 month sex. And he's okay with this. No pushing, no complains. He things that it's part of beeing a decent human, though I know it's not that simple. (He has an average high sexdrive)

Guess what I wanted to say: It is possible to have a relationship, and a child, without a rich sex live.

I hope you find somebody that respects your needs and have a great relationship with them.

(The Internet is a great place for finding other a/grey/demisexual people. Maybe talking with them would help you?)