I have a huge problem with touchy feely people.. Unless I know someone well , I will do anything to avoid it up to and even taking a step back and say Hey I am not comfortable with X.. If the person judges me for it... so be it ... If it does happens it really depends on the situation .
I know my avoidance of it comes from past csa. Its doubtful I will ever be able to change my ability to tolerate random non threatening touching, and that is okay.
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