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Old Jun 06, 2016, 05:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Shadix View Post
Ok, when I said being "laughed at" I didn't necessarily mean laughed it like hahaha funny, I meant more like them finding it really weird. It's hard to explain. Maybe I am totally wrong and it is an irrational fear, but I just have this sense that it is only normal for a guy to ask out a girl when he is meets some set of criteria where he is fit to be dating her. It is not just my age, I have had doubts that my physical appearance, my personality, my life experience, my interests, even my ethnic background, make me unsuited to ask girls out. Again, it is an abstract feeling that is hard to explain.


How do you know they find it weird? Unless they directly say " it's so weird you ask me out" you have no ways of knowing. Plus since you never ask anyone out you can't possibly know. Take a risk.

I understand you feel inferior and I understand it's not your choice to feel this way but that's why many of us keep saying you need to see a good t as the first time in right direction

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