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Originally Posted by Artchic528
What am I doing so wrong to not to attract a bunch of worthwhile guys? Is it that there are none to be found? I am strongly believing they are a myth.
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It's partly that you're willing accept subpar behavior, being mistreated. They can pick up on this, and you reinforce that when you reward them for treating you badly and/or dismissively. Have you defined clearly for yourself what it is you want in a romantic partner? Compare those behaviors to your list, if so. (Generally there are not lots of worthwhile people available. A lot of people are so-so, and some just outright awful.)
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Originally Posted by Artchic528
Edit: I should say now that I hate platitudes and vague non answers (aka "they are out there"). I know that comes off as crass and all, but I am just sick and tired of hearing them. They don't encourage me at all but only serve to annoy and depress me further.
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Me too.