I recently had a significant loss...after four years of work on a group I started...it was rejected by the higher ups...it was a health group...I am very ANGRY...I am furious....I didn't realize what a loss this was....I have been more depressed....just now after 4 months am I starting to understand that I am not going to get MY WAY...I would like to blame somebody for this but I was part of the problem...I was challenging the ways of the people in charge....

this has happened to me before when dealing with the higher ups...any ideas for me from the group