Also can I just say in our relationship I have stressed so many times we need friends in our lives. This was when she wanted to be with me all the time, never wanted me to have friends. We fought so much over this topic. And now when I have started to accept the fact that she wanted to be with me all the time, for 2 years we fought over this, just when I accepted it and got used to it she turns around and all of a sudden its all about "friends". To me it is evident that it's all about this friend that is her ex because I don't see her hanging with any other friends beside her. Now to her it's like I must just accept it. It took me two years to get used to it, how can I just accept it? She never bothered to transition me into this new phase of hers, instead just through me in the deep end. In my opinion you can't mess with someone's mind and heart like that.