Hi guys,

I'm with this girl for almost a year now (I'm 25 and she is 27). The other day she told me that she needs to forget about me in order to go back with her ex.

She says that I'm what shw always dreamed about it and that she's not able to leave straight away, but she needs to do that gradually, by stopping seeing each other every day, texting and so forth.

She also said that she wants me to be in her life, no matter what, because after all we've lived together, she will die if I cut all contacts with her.

I find the situation a little bit weird and somewhat dysfunctional. She talks to me like if she MUST go back with her ex. She's even planning how to achieve that, like if it was a project assigned at work.

I don't know what to do and what to think. I'm realy in love with her, so it is difficult for me.

What do you guys suggest?

Thank you!