Hello and welcome to PC!

I am sorry you are going through this. I agree with other posters that him staying at his parents and you just being patient is the best course for now.

I just want to add that the psych meds really affect behavior. I have experiences years of back and forth behavior in trying to fix or end my marriage. I have been prescribed at least a dozen different meds over time and they have fueled my problem.

I'm not saying the meds are bad. I just don't know. But they do affect my thoughts and actions.