I use to hate that, the struggle over which "way" to go. But then I'd remember that all my bright ideas hadn't worked in the past, had gotten me into seeing T in the first place so maybe I should at least try her way :-) I didn't give up that my way was probably better, LOL, but figured she was "weak" and we had to do it her way because she wasn't able to see it my way. I'm kind that way, could humor her ;-)