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Old Jun 06, 2016, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Humpty Dumpty View Post
I have been where you are. I did end up breaking down (Feb 2015) and I am still feeling the physical effects of it. I endedup taking about a month off for short-term disability. I don'tknow how that works in your country but here in America it is fairly easy. You will need to be in therapy while you are on disability. Just as if you were physically injured you have to be seeing a doctor and taking steps to try to get better. So long as you do that you can determine how long you need to be off. Your work doesn't have to know why you are out. They will just know that a doctor has said you are sick and can't come in. Please try and do this see if it helps. I waited too long and now my body shakes like I'm some kind of drug addict wanting a fix.
Thank you for your reply. I'm not sure how short ter disability works here either. The problem is, I don't even know how much time I should take off. At the moment I wish I could leave and never go back but obviously I need a job. Also, I would hate myself and feel like a failure if I took time off. This is ofcourse no reflection on you, I'm just particularly critical of myself.