Thanks for all who replied

She said she was worried about 'us' and was upset and needed to talk to me but I was just too tired, should I be made to feel bad?

Also an old female friend who I've not seen for 9 years recently got back in touch and we went for a drink tonight. Now she's mad I can stay out late with someone else but not talk to her late when she wants to

My head is spinning. Am I in the wrong??