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She also said that she wants me to be in her life, no matter what, because after all we've lived together, she will die if I cut all contacts with her.
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I don't see this as working out well for you. Given that she has informed you that she is in the process of leaving you, I think you should cut contact with her. You will be torturing yourself by being "friends" with someone you love, and by being an ongoing witness to her closeness with someone else. Plus, I think you should let her experience what life is like without you; maybe she will change her mind.
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she will die if I cut all contacts with her
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Is she seriously suggesting that actual harm will come to her if you cut contacts with her? If so, this would be what is known as
emotional blackmail,
Emotional Blackmail ? Out of the FOG