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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I had all the same kinds of behaviors from guys when I was dating as you are having. Only we didn't have text and email.
When they would call me again out of the blue, my mother would smugly tell me "They got to W in the phone book" That was the initial of my last name. Implying that they called every other girl in their little black book, got rejected, and then tried me. Just stupid, creepy guys.
You want to be treated with respect and consideration by someone who is truly interested in you. Just keep focus on that.
But if the general pool of guys treat women like garbage, you shouldn't beat yourself up and get so upset over their bad behavior. Just imagine they are doing the same thing to every other girl. Will they find one desperate enough to lay down for them? If every girl won't allow themselves to be treated like crap, will the guys start behaving better because they have to?
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Yeah, but what if I only attract that pool of guys who treats me like garbage, no matter what I do. Then would one logically just chose the guys least offensive out of that dismal pool? It seems that is my only option if I were to want companionship. Other guys outside of this pool refuse to date me. I even got told by one guy that I wasn't his type because I didn't "value taking care of myself physically" aka he basically said no because I was too heavy set for his taste. I'm not thin, but then again, I'm not morbidly obese. Yet, guys just don't bother with me because I'm a little bit chubby. I find that very disheartening and very offensive, but it's the reality of the situation. Guys I am attracted to just don't want a voluptuous plus sized girl in their lives for whatever reason.
So now you see why I am so utterly exasperated. What am I to do?