After over 30 years of marriage I need help in deciding how to cintinue in a marriage with a wife with an abti-social personality disorder. Lack of empathy. Etc. I need some peace. Might I try and isolate myself more ? She does her thing (nothing) and I do mine ? Ignore her self centered emotions ? Especially her lack of empathy towards others ? Her refusal to engage socially ? Her inability to engage ? Wife creates an unsettled feeling all the time. What to do ?