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Originally Posted by Mike91
Hi guys,
I'm with this girl for almost a year now (I'm 25 and she is 27). The other day she told me that she needs to forget about me in order to go back with her ex.
She says that I'm what shw always dreamed about it and that she's not able to leave straight away, but she needs to do that gradually, by stopping seeing each other every day, texting and so forth.
She also said that she wants me to be in her life, no matter what, because after all we've lived together, she will die if I cut all contacts with her.
I find the situation a little bit weird and somewhat dysfunctional. She talks to me like if she MUST go back with her ex. She's even planning how to achieve that, like if it was a project assigned at work.
I don't know what to do and what to think. I'm realy in love with her, so it is difficult for me.
What do you guys suggest?
Thank you!
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What an awful woman!! If you are not careful she will go back to the old BF and at the first sign of trouble she try and get back with you. I'm sorry you are still in love with her as this situation must be eating you up inside.
The logical thing to do is ignore all her calls & texts and pretend to be out if she calls round. But love turns us into illogical beings, and we often do things that hurt ourselves just to keep our love interest around.