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Old Jun 07, 2016, 03:53 PM
rachaelh21 rachaelh21 is offline
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Will my ex come back?

obviously no one knows the answer to this, however I was wondering if anyone has any previous experiences that they can relate to this.

Basically, me and my ex moved in together properly after a year of being together and we are both young (21). i basically lived at his house the after about 3/4 months of being together (that’s another story but is what happened). We were absolutely fine living together which is why we decided we would move in together properly the year after (not just us two we live with others but we share a room). everything was fine, we don’t argue much and can spend a lot of time together.

However 2/3 months ago he said he didn’t feel the same way anymore. He said he's had to much to soon and doesn’t want the relationship anymore. he felt it had been to intense and no longer wanted to be with me anymore. however i had exams and stuff for uni so we kind of put this on hold and tried to act normal. However the day my exams finished I asked him about it again and he said he still felt the same way so I said I would rather break up; I don’t want to be with someone who does not want to be with me. He is now staying at a friends house.

He cried quite a bit when we broke up, i hugged him goodbye when we knew we weren’t going to see each other for a while and he burst in to tears and he said he was still in love with me. He just did not want the relationship anymore due to the intensity of it.

However, in about a month we won’t be living together and i said to him that obviously the main problem for him in our relationship was living together and the intensity of it made him unhappy and not want the relationship anymore, however very soon, the problem of living together will no longer be apparent and I asked if he would like to meet up in a couple of months to see how we both feel, which he agreed. he also said he can’t promise anything as well but at the same time, I said neither can I, i don’t know how i will feel in 2 months.

I’m going to go No contact until we meet to talk about our feelings in a couple of months and decide whether to give our relationship a try again.

Has anyone had anything similar to this? what was the outcome?
or any other relatable advice to this?
Or any opinions in general?