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Originally Posted by Anxiousvalkyrie
My ex husband turned into a man I didn't even recognize when we got divorced. It's amazing how they can change seemingly overnight.
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It is quite baffling! I have never had anyone be as cruel to me as he has been. He is a bully and he thinks he can say and behave any way he pleases, blame all his misery on me. He has caused a great deal of anxiety and misery to me also. He told me a few minutes ago that if people don't see things his way, ef them because it should be clear to anyone why he is leaving.
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Originally Posted by Little Cat
Can you stay with your parents for a while? Or friends from church?  |
I would love to stay with my parents and they would have us but I feel like it is not my responsibility to leave and that it could be harmful in court if I do leave. I just settle for staying the night here and there as I feel MUCH more secure with them. Inside, I'm desperate to stay with them. I have tryed more than I can stand of being belittled and berated...and having him not even recognize his behavior as such. I just feel like I am in an impossible situation.
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Originally Posted by ElsaMars
I am so sorry for all you are going through right now. The pain is so evident. Your situation is not ideal. That man needs to leave for the sake of your sanity. Has he no humanity? Does he even care what he is doing to the mother of his children? Shame on his for his arrogance. Hopefully he gets taken down a few notches and begins to behave with more compassion.
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Thank you! He says he won't leave until he has a house lined up for himself and the kids. Since he is depending on his portion of equity in our home (which is large) and since he can't make me sell the house until the divorce is final, I don't know when the hell he will leave. My parents plan to buy the house so I can stay in anyway. He suggested I leave also but I told him I would not be the one walking out on my family. This is his responsibility.
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Every finger in the room is pointing at me
I want to spit in their faces then I get afraid of what that could bring
I got a bowling ball in my stomach I got a desert in my mouth
Figures that my courage would choose to sell out now
Tori Amos ~ Crucify
Dx: Schizoaffective Disorder
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